The 20 Commandments of Toddler Discipline

Our little 2-year-old is driving me crazy. So I did a little research and found a good article called, "The 20 Commandments of Toddler Discipline." It's great advice. I'd just like to add something...consistency. My plan is to write down the rules and the consequences for breaking a rule. So she knows what will happen if she breaks a rule. Obviously Bugs can't read yet, but we haven't been consistent in discipline. If she throws food at the table, she's done with dinner...no questions asked. If she won't clean up her toys, then a toy goes into time out for a week. Anyway, that's my plan. Does anyone have any good strategies or advice?

Serenity now! Serenity now!

Well I must say the Bug is driving me bonkers! She's going through the "I can't tell you how I'm feeling, but I can be aggressive" phase. She'll hit me and even after I tell her "we don't hit because it hurts," she does it again. Even if I raise my voice a little she gets this smirk on her face like it's all a big joke. I try to talk to her and put a name to what she's feeling. It's driving me nuts! Any advice?

Also, as I said in a previous post she's been in her toddler bed for 1.5 weeks now and had been doing great - she has always been good at going down for naps. But in the past few days she'll play for 1-2 hours before falling asleep on the floor somewhere - twice in front of her door. She doesn't cry, but plays quietly. Even if I go in and lay her back down it's the same story. Selfishly I must admit that it's nice - gives me a little extra alone time, but I want to do what is right for her. Will this pass? Any advice?

I was talking to my mother today and she suggested a swap with another mom, so we both have a couple of hours of alone time during the week. I think I'll look into that and maybe a playgroup. That will give Ella and I time with other people, instead of just the two of us all the time. I'll keep you updated.